Thursday, October 27, 2011

NOH8

NOH8 Campaign is a silent protest photo project against California Proposition 8.

Many have made NOH8 about more tho. A lot of people have moved it from gay/lesbian to all around hate. I am a support of NOH8 on both levels. I think everyone should have the right to marry who ever they choice. And I am against bullies and hate more then most know.

Saying this, I am not saying I am perfect. Everyone has flaws. My major one is when I get mad I can't control what I say. Have I on occasion hated? Of course. If someone has said, "I have never hated on anyone", well they would be lying. Everyone makes mistakes. But that is being human.

Does it make it ok? NO. No one should ever think hate is ok. Not even if they do it first. But you can not expect ANYONE to NEVER hate. It's just not possible. In my eyes, you should do your best to not hate. And when you make a mistake, be the bigger person and say sorry. Even if they don't accept it.

Hate is like a virus. Its spreads so quickly. Sometime you don't even realize how bad it truly is until you take a step back and look at the situation as a whole. That's the problem. People get so obsessed with who is doing wrong. Who has done more wrong. Just waiting for someone to make a bigger mistake. No one is ever innocent. No matter how much they try to claim to be.

Some claim to not know why I am pro NOH8. Well simply put, I had a gay brother. He died before I got the chance to meet him. Long story, idk I might have blogged about it before. And I grew up the fat girl in a class of 25. So I had lots of bullies.
It doesnt bother me much anymore because of something that happened years ago. But some days things get to me. And I break. It's bound to happen to everyone every now an again. Today was that day for me. I am not proud of it. But you can only hold it in for so long.

Summary-
Do your best not to hate. It's evil. (Warning going religious on you) It's what the devil wants. So try to think before you act. I know it wont work every time just put in the effort.